I was waiting for a bus back my room and nearby me there was a girl standing near a street vendor who was selling 'chatpate' and 'pani puri'. The girl seemed that she was eagerly waiting for someone. She seemed so desperate that she was frequently looking at her watch and even dialing (may be the same person she was waiting for). Her eagerness didn't stop me from guessing that she was waiting for her boyfriend. After few minutes, she smiled looking someone across the road. My eyes too followed where she was glancing at. I was imagining someone tall and handsome guy as she was tall, slim and beautiful girl. But to my surprise, across the road, I noticed a short, plump but cute girl, who was waving her hands with a beautiful smile on her face. As soon as they met, they asked chatpate for them and started chatting. The chat was so fast and random that no one could even think about that. They were talking about Modi's visit to their sudden weight gain. They were talking about their school days and about their other friends. All of a sudden there started a huge laughter. And beside them I was being interested in their chat which had no importance in my life.
After some few minutes the bus arrived and I got into it, but my whole mind was there in their chat. At that point I realized how our thinking drives us. How negative we are? We always think that girls can never be good friends like boys are. When we see a girl waiting for some one, our mind gives the first option that she is probably waiting her boyfriend. But being a girl also most of the time we forget that the friendship between girls is grander and more dramatic than any other romance (by Hannah).
Most of us have the opinion that women have trouble getting along with one other but I think this is not applicable in friendship as I too have experienced it and I think I shouldn't go in any lab as there is no better experimental lab than our own lives.
Yes, it's true that so many people come into and go from our lives. We make so many friends as well and it's difficult to say whom we are more linked to and close. People who come into our lives are always not only of same sex and some of us also have the opinion linked with that the universal law of attraction that just like the negative poles attract, we only get attracted with different sex people and we tend to say that girls can never get attracted to each other or if they get attracted they are lesbians. But in my opinion the friendship goes only when there is attraction and affection. And every time the attraction never grows. But if we find the similar poles in the another girl too, along with time the attraction grows.
The attraction between girls is so unique that even the boys cannot beat. Everyone has their own life but each time whenever her friend needs she is there to help her. All of the best friends have their boyfriends or husbands but they manage their time to share their small things with their girl friends. They do every thing together. I don't know about boys but we girls take turns even for pointing out each other's worst qualities and what do we expect from each other. We know immediately when our other friend has a crush or when she is in a deep pain. Umm! of course, we are competitive but more than that the competition is healthy and we learn a lot from each other.
Our friendship is bold but it doesn't mean that we overlook the male figure in our life. Our relationship with our male friends (not only boyfriend) are also unique. We respect them, care them, support them and even guide them on how they can make their girl friend happy. We hangout with our male friends also but going out with our best girl friends has it's own importance. It's awesome.
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